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Ages 16–18
By Jessica Goodman

They Wish They Were Us

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Ages
16–18

AI summary

Jill Newman is a senior at an elite Gold Coast prep school and a member of 'The Players,' an exclusive secret society. Three years after her best friend Shaila was allegedly murdered by her boyfriend, Jill begins to receive evidence that the wrong person might be in jail, leading her to uncover the dark secrets of her privileged community.

Parent notes

While a compelling mystery, it features a heavy emphasis on 'party culture,' including underage drinking, drug use, and teen sexual situations that may conflict with traditional values. Parent concerns: Underage drinking and drug use; Sexual content and hookup culture; Secret societies and hazing rituals; Murder and violence; Profanity Romance/sexual content: The book includes references to teen dating, hookup culture, and sexual relationships typical of the 'elite prep school' genre, though it generally remains within the YA 'fade-to-black' or suggestive territory rather than being graphic. Language: Likely includes standard YA profanity (crap, damn, hell) and potentially stronger language given the 'Gossip Girl' comparison. Violence: The plot centers on a murder; includes descriptions of a crime scene and some physical hazing rituals. Substances: Frequent depictions of underage drinking and recreational drug use at parties, common in prep-school-themed mysteries. Worldview themes: Truth vs. Social Standing, Elitism and Privilege, Justice

Why parents choose this book

What makes They Wish They Were Us worth choosing

An honest, parent-first look at who this book suits, what it offers, and what to know before you buy.

Best for

  • Age range: 16–18.
  • Reading maturity: Young adult — teen protagonists and more nuanced themes.
  • Kids who tend to love it: readers ages 16–18 looking for a solid story.
  • Personality fit: kids ages 16–18 who enjoy a good story.

Parents love this book because

  • Written by Jessica Goodman, whose books parents return to for consistently thoughtful storytelling.

Your child will probably enjoy They Wish They Were Us if they…

  • Enjoy stories written for kids around ages 16–18

This book helps develop

Vocabulary, sustained attention, and reading confidence for the 16–18 age band.

Things parents should know

  • Romance: romantic subplot with kissing or teen dating.
  • Violence: clear on-page conflict without lingering detail.
  • Language: occasional mild words for the older end of the band.
  • Sexual content: references or fade-to-black moments.

Reading commitment

Estimated reading time
Varies by reader
Length
Length varies by edition
Difficulty
Young adult
Works as read-aloud
Usually read independently
Good for independent readers
Yes — suits confident readers in the age band

Why we recommend it

We recommend They Wish They Were Us for the 16–18 age band with a small heads-up on content — worth previewing or discussing. Jessica Goodman's voice is what makes it stick: readable, respectful of kids, and easy to hand to the next child in the family.

Content ratings

Sexual content2/4
Suicide / self-harm0/4
Violence2/4
Romance2/4
Language2/4
Scary content0/4
Faith content0/4

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